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“The worst thing anyone said about him
was that she was just like him.”



The second book in The Daughter of a Drunk takes on the sentence adult children of alcoholics dread most — that they will turn out exactly like the parent they spent years trying to escape. Howard Kane writes about inherited patterns without excusing them, and about the daily, unglamorous work of proving that sentence wrong. It is written for anyone who grew up listening for a car in the driveway.

Written without flinching and without self-pity.
Recovery here is slow, and treated as such.
Family dynamics rendered with real accuracy.
Clear enough to read on a difficult day.
A fear that arrives in your own voice.
A pattern nobody chose.
The work of breaking it anyway.
Exactly Like My Father is a raw, hopeful book about growing up with an alcoholic parent, and about refusing to accept inheritance as a verdict.
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This is a hard book that never makes hardship the point. Kane writes about inherited harm with enough clarity that the hope at the end feels earned rather than offered.
Unflinching honesty
A genuinely useful perspective
Hope that feels earned
Heavy going in places
Some repetition between chapters
“A book is a dream that you hold in your hand.”
– Neil Gaiman