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Becoming Dad

by Justin P. Hairston

4.4 (64 Reviews)

Anyone can be called Dad.

Becoming one takes longer.

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About the Book

Becoming a father happens in an afternoon. Becoming Dad, Justin P. Hairston argues, takes considerably longer. This is a short, personal book about the gap between the two — about the version of fatherhood a man inherits, the version he is told to perform, and the one he has to build himself, usually at three in the morning with nobody watching.

  • PAGES168
  • PUBLISHEDMay 09, 2023
  • LANGUAGEEnglish
  • GENREParenting

What Makes It Special

Honest and Personal

Written from experience rather than theory.

Identity Over Instruction

Less a how-to, more a hard look in the mirror.

For New and Older Fathers

Useful at any point on the road.

Warm, Conversational Tone

Reads like a long talk with a friend.

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Book Summary

A title given in a day.

An identity built over years.

The distance between the two.

Becoming Dad is a reflective, encouraging book about fatherhood as something learned rather than granted — written for men still working out what kind of father they want to be.

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Hairston avoids the two usual traps of fatherhood books — the checklist and the highlight reel. What is left is honest, quiet and worth handing to a friend who has just become a dad.

OVERALL RATING4.3 / 5
What We Loved

Sincere and grounded

Short enough to actually finish

Encouraging without being preachy

What Could Be Better

Light on practical guidance

A faith perspective throughout

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